Victor, in his own words: “Being a gay man seems to demand more of you. There is an expectation and a boundary that we have collectively made that makes us a forgiving, accepting, and loving community. I believe that the the constraints that the gay community that preceded ours; those who had to fight first hand to be able to hold that hand of another man or woman, has given a way for us to reach further and have a deeper impact in our community. Being gay also means I like boys. Haha.”