Monthly Archives: July 2012

Reverend Roger Anthony Yolanda Mapes and Glen, Performer and Truth Teacher, New York City

photo by Kevin Truong

photo by Kevin Truong

photo by Kevin Truong

photo by Kevin Truong

Reverend Roger Anthony Yolanda Mapes’ own words “(Being gay) simply means that I am sexually attracted to masculinity in general, and specifically, sexually and emotionally joined to my husband Glen. It doesn’t mean that I belong to any particular “gay” stereotype.”

“I am Spirit having a human experience in a body that society and culture says is “male” and more specifically “gay male”. Neither of these identities define me. I am both male and female, profane and Divine. I am Human and that is a profound and enlightening experience.”

“I have found that what I think of anyone is a reflection of what I think of myself. There were times that I didn’t have a lot of love for myself and that was reflected back to me in the community around me, LGBT or otherwise. I have resolved so many of my own issues that the community around me has changed. The people that surround me, now, reflect the love that I have for myself. I have created renewed, loving relationships with old friends in the LGBT community, and I have also made new friends with LGBT people that hold the same goals as I do. I also have established and strengthened relationships with life affirming people in other communities besides the LGBT community. All of my circles now intersect easily with each other.”

“(One of the challenges I’ve faced) is believing in myself despite the opinions of others. Other people have always told me what I was “supposed” to do, and what the life threatening consequences would be if I did not follow their instructions. Guess what!! I’m still here !! I’m still doing it my way.. the way my inner Spirit directs me… and I LOVE my LIFE! thank you very much!”