photo by Kevin Truong
photo by Kevin Truong
photo by Kevin Truong
photo by Kevin Truong
photo by Kevin Truong
photo by Kevin Truong
photo by Kevin Truong
photo by Kevin Truong
Fernando, in his own words: “I never thought what means to me to be a gay man. But I know or I feel it´s not just only be sexually attracted to other men, it´s being comfortable with it.
Challenge or success of being gay? I think we only have challenge being gay! All of the people around us think about our sexuallity or our homosexuality, and rarely we hear good things from them. All the time we have to prove we are not pathetic or promiscuous.
“Coming out” was not very easy. Even hard! I think it was a process I took some time to complete. It was not very easy to accept myself but keep secrets is very exhausting. The first step of my “coming out” was accept that I am gay, then was easier to tell my sons and my family.
(If I could give myself advice before coming out I’d say) Don´t waste time!! Be happy!!”
Vitor, in his own words “It’s really simple, to be gay is to be happy with myself and faithful with other people.
I keep having a challenge, cause my family “don’t know” about my sexuality, or they pretend to… but it’s ok, because we live too far. I’m being successful about my friends, I’ve never had any problem with then about this. They are my family in Rio.
The gay community in Rio is really bad… we have always the same things happening, same parties, same places, same people…. same blah blah blah. I love the gay community at São Paulo, there’s a lot of differences from here!
(With regards to coming out) I’m still in the closet…to my family! hahahhaha But in Rio, everybody knows, and it happened in the most normal way:
– Hi Carol, I’m gay.
– Ok. lets go drink!
(Advice I’d give myself) Face your family, they love you.”
Desejo os maiores votos de felicidades para vocês dois. Sigam em frente e que Deus os acompahe e proteja.
Gostei muito de ler sobre vocês e, sei que este não é o local propício, mas fiquei curioso em como foi a saída do armário do Fernando para a família, princicipalmente filhos. Percebo que logo terei que passar por esse processo e não sei como enfrentar o fato. Como não tenho com quem conversar sobre o assunto, daí a minha curiosidade. Também desejo expressar os meus desejos de muitas felicidades ao casal e que o relacionamento entre os dois só venha a se fortalecer. Abraços !