Chris, in his own words: “Being gay is kind of a paradox between things that are a big deal and things that aren’t.
Being gay means that people who have never met you will pass judgment on you as though they understand what it is to be you.
Consequently, being gay eventually means that you’ll learn how to stop taking it personally, maybe.
Being gay means that you happen to like other wonderful people with the same junk as you.
It also means means that religious fanatics will write offensive things on protest boards and get really, really angry that you are even alive, even though sexual sin ranks among the least offensive in God’s eyes.
Being gay means that at some point you will probably download an app or sign up for a website that will cause you to look at a gallery of men in a manner similar to that of toaster shopping.
(Just remember that toasters have feelings too.)
Being gay means that you will think a lot about how others perceive you, but then again, so does being straight, too.
Being gay means that you’ll get to make fun of yourself with all sorts of delightful stereotypes, but then again, straight people do that too.
Being gay means that your religious parents will write you awkward and slightly offensive letters explaining why they think you’re gay, maybe.
Being gay might mean that said religious parents will also maybe sit you down and have a talk with you after they find out that you’ve been sashaying through your Catholic elementary school playground. You can find your “own unique walk”, after all. Just as long as it doesn’t make you look like a sissy.
Being gay means that you might have to watch so that you don’t get bitter. That would be bad.
Being gay means that you can get married in quite a few places.
Being gay means that women everywhere will assume you have excellent taste in shoes.
Being gay means that ghosts visiting you from the 17th century will mistakenly assume you identify as “happy”.
Being gay means that settling the bill might be slightly more complicated, but not much more than usual.
Being gay means that finding humour in life will be more important than ever. Maybe even the most important.”